give the love you need

what if we really did that?

gave someone the amount of love that we actually need…

or gave the forgiveness that we actually need…

or gave the grace that we actually need…

that’s alot of love, forgiveness and grace. it’s ALOT.

have you ever needed forgiveness? think about that.

if we actually gave the amount we require… INFINITE AMOUNTS… we would love hard, forgive quickly and extend grace lavishly.

yeah. i wanna do that.

because you know what? when you are quick to love, forgive and extend grace… it will fill people up. it will encourage love. it will change lives. most importantly, it will change your life.

what do you need today that you can give instead?

i believe that if you give it you will get it. might sound a little like karma, but it’s really more about reaping and sowing.

give what you need… and i suspect it will be more than you would’ve given otherwise. speaking from personal experience, of course.

this isn’t going to be easy. it isn’t something cute and fun to put on a bracelet. this is a true filter. a way to see things. a way to think. a way to consider our actions.

this concept is captivating me right now … and humbling me. because i need a lot of all of this.

 

i’ve died and gone to heaven.

actually… i haven’t.

pantone cards and markers

normally, this is the kind of things that would make me say "i've died and gone to heaven"

phillip randoll did.

if you were at my church this sunday, then you know…

if you were not, and you want to know you can check it out here: https://vimeo.com/39998177

i ask you… who has an easter service that starts with death? we do, that’s who.

you know, lots of people go to church on just christmas and easter… so it’s possible that they have only encountered two of the stories in the entire bible. TWO! while, we can all agree that they are the two most crucial things that have ever happened… christ was born… christ died and rose again defeating death.

but the bible is about so much more. and the picture is so much bigger. it is huge.

that’s what we chose to show at my church this week.

to show that a life lived for christ has an eternal impact. that every second counts. every word. every decision. every second.

as our pastor, David Landrith, stood and shared, there was a descending ticker behind him on the screen… counting down the seconds of his life (if he were to live to age 80). WOW. it was powerful.

then to see the ripple effect of philip randoll’s life. his choice to

say yes to jesus

to become a prayer warrior to friends

to have a godly marriage

to evangelize his community

to take his family to another country to start a church.

the evidence of his life lived for Christ … that’s the kind of evidence i want to leave behind when i am gone.

when i have died and gone to heaven… i want to have left evidence of a life lived for Christ.

what do you want to leave behind when you’ve died and gone to heaven?

 

i received an interesting message today…

why is spiderman at the top of this post? read on... read on...

this is what her message said -

“as it currently stands, i am having to make decisions about my job i never hoped to make which is leading me to question career choices in journalism and life as a writer. i’ve often viewed writing talent (or any art form) as a curse. There is the relentless need to achieve perfection and writing is subjective-loved by some, hated by others.
i find myself questioning why God gave me talent as a writer and why i couldn’t have been blessed with something else that would have been easier to establish job security in, like having a gift for science or math and pursuing careers in medicine or business.
as i was reading my bible tonight, i began to realize being gifted in writing is one of the greatest gifts of all. why? God needed writers to spread his word. True all scripture was inspired by God, but he needed someone there to put ink on the pages.
and although this doesn’t necessarily bring about resolve to my concerns, it does provide a little comfort.” this was sent to me by Emily Jane Vernon, (check out her blog. follow her on twitter.

she makes a really good point, doesn’t she? and i love our God for encouraging her through the very medium that she was questioning. I love that he shared a love letter and showed her how important the written word is… it gives life in the case of the bible… by using his word written down for us.

it’s true, writing is an interesting thing because it is very subjective, and with the new outlets like blogs, tweets, posts, etc. many of the traditional rules are out the window too… so you can’t even really judge something on it’s structural elements. it’s pretty much, do people like reading what we write? which leads to something altogether different.

it’s our responsibility to find contentment in Christ and not look for it from others. this is true in relationships (it is not your husband’s job to make you feel a certain way. it is not your child’s job to complete you. and on and on… ) when we have contentment the other things that we really want take care of themselves. that being said, we have to be content that what we write honors God, and is worthy of our time and effort. when we share, we have to be confident in what we are sharing. we take a risk that it won’t be well received or considered “good enough”. and we have to be ok with that. and content that we did the best we could.

if you are a writer, be grateful. you have been entrusted with a powerful gift. use it wisely.

story. writing. capturing the best ideas. sharing. it’s crucial, and has life changing effects.

like peter’s grandfather told him in spiderman “with great power comes great responsibility”.

an instrument of death…

Imagethis easter … this is what was put in my mind and on my heart. thank you Jesus, for showing me new things all the time. you keep giving me new ways to understand your gift… the grace… the hope and promise of forever. thank you for that.

what’s so good about this friday?

without this friday… there is no sunday.

without sunday… there is no resurrection.

without resurrection… there is no salvation.

without salvation… there is no heaven.

there is hell. that’s it.

that’s what so good about this friday.

if this doesn’t make sense to you, then we need to talk.

it means that i haven’t shared the most important thing i know, with you.

and that is on me, not you. if i have encountered you, spent time with you, cared about you… but haven’t shared the story of forgiveness with you i am at fault.

if you know the story of forgiveness and chose not to receive it…that is on you.

friends that know Jesus… tell everyone you know what’s so good about this Friday.

hard to love or love hard?

they call him love. love. love. love. love.

you know. i’m often talking to people about love.

to my family: love one another. that’s your sister, love her. i love you.

to my friends: i love you. let’s look at each other through a love filter.

to my leaders: love kids. love them hard. when they are hard to love, love them anyway.

it hit me today… you can’t ask people to love hard, unless you love them hard.

dodgeball and jesus… what’s up with that?

i saw a tweet today that said “i don’t know what dodgeball has to do with church.

i had to laugh. because if someone doesn’t see how a dodgeball tournament that brings 2500 students from all over the county and surrounding areas to church… to hear about jesus and hang out with their friends… then they haven’t been to my church.

dodgeball tournament at long hollow, @lhstudents

you see, students are a huge deal at long hollow. they are celebrated. considered. thought about. prayed for. fed. loved. we bend over backwards and any which way to find ways to bring kids to church. church is a place that is safe. church is a place where you can find help. church is a place where you can have fun. Jesus is not boring, he gives life and freedom.

our student team loves kids. they go to games and plays and banquets and … well, let’s just say that if there are students there, our student team is there too. they are involved and engaged in the lives of teens everywhere. this is great. and important.

to me… it’s crucial. you see, i have two kids in this ministry. and i have one more that will be joining them in a couple of months. so 3 of my 4 children are in their hands.

my oldest said it best when he told me recently “this has been the best two years of my life”. he knows that he is valued and important to the people in his church. HIS CHURCH… not just my church that i make him attend, but HIS CHURCH. and HIS FRIENDS… not just the kids of my friends.

yes, long hollow student ministry has given my kids a place that they will never forget. they will carry in their hearts and memories as they become adults and make their own decisions about how they want to live their lives. they have been given a foundation of truth, that is reiterated every day. for that, i’m eternally grateful.

that’s what dodgeball has to do with church.

sidenote: my 7th grader’s team #simplyswag won the junior high girls tournament. it was a sweet victory. hashtag awesome.

why should i care “who phillip randoll is”?

have you been wondering? i know i have. there are clues and he has a blog and a is active in social networks… he is all over the place… 

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i can’t wait for easter… to find out all about him… i have heard enough about it to know that anyone who misses will deeply regret the choice to miss out.

i can’t wait for easter… because some people will come to church that normally wouldnt come. kids will be in treehouse that have never been in a treehouse. people will hear the truth of Christ that they have never heard before.

i can’t wait for easter… because we get to sing hosanna, rocks! again. i love this new fun song by Yancy. So catchy and the kids really love it.

I can’t wait for easter… because it is when we get to celebrate that resurrection day when jesus was literally raised from the dead, and as such, conquering death (which i so grossly deserve) and buying my ticket out of hell… my entrance to heaven… my forgiveness with his perfectness.

i can’t wait for easter… because i will finally get to know who phillip randoll is… and how his “fortunate death” is good news.

please don’t miss easter at long hollow. if you live anwhere near us… DON’T CHEAT YOURSELF OUT OF IT. if history tells me anything… this will be something that is far superior to one of the shows or other things you could do in nashville this weekend.

choose your service, we have friday, saturday, sunday and sunday evening… NO EXCUSES :) .

here is the info: http://whoisphilliprandoll.com/

up in my treehouse…

up in my treehouse

oh. friends. i can’t freaking wait for you to hear the new treehouse song!

(my friend curt campbell and I wrote it)

as soon as it is available for free download i will let you know.

it is so catchy and fun and says exactly what i wanted it to say.

we are using the song to open our spring musical. the musical is set in a treehouse… 4 kids are spending their last day before middle school opening up their time capsule from kindergarten: THE REVERED TIME CAPSULE OF KINDERGARTENESS.

except for the title song, all of the remaining songs are some of my very favorites from Slugs & Bugs, Underwhere. with titles like ‘Ninja’, ‘Mexican Rhapsody’ and God Makes Messy Things Beautiful … people should be prepared to be enchanted.

the kids are loving the songs. i’m loving the music (which is really good because i have heard each of these songs 1000 times, at least)… and the best part is that we get to point to Christ. with a song about cheese dip! and an all-the-faraway in my backyard treehouse … it’s going to be fun.

i’ve been working on the poster today… thought i would share it.

what are you so excited about today that you want to make a poster?!

if you tell me… maybe i’ll just design a poster for you!

blogs and songs… what they have in common

let's all be mellow.

after yesterday’s post about the longevity of a song… the life of it…

it hit me, that’s also kind of true about blogs. with links and trackbacks and retweets and shares… you get the point.

the message in a blog is alot like a song. it has a longer life. it has the ability to keep breathing.

i love that.

makes me really glad that i’ve been trapping some of these new lessons i’m learning in my blog.

you see… almost daily i get humbled by something i thought i knew, but had to relearn. it’s almost comical how swiftly this happens.

and when i can trap it here and share it… it is good stewardship of the idea or lesson.

plus its really fun. and, as you know, i really love writing.